Well, it's been seriously long since I last talked about any friend of mine. Well then, the friend I'm about to talk about, it took me quite a long time to actually write about him despite that he's constantly on my mind that it didn't occur to me to actually write about him.
I met him not long ago in a most unlikely situation. He's sort of my superior or at least my supervisor, but he acted more like a friend to me than anything else. The first time we met was at night. Had super awkward introduction mostly from my part because when he stuck out his hand, I didn't shake it but instead reached for my bottle. That's embarrasing.
The thing about this friend of mine is that he's a real gentleman and the most "gentleman" guy I've ever come across. A very polite guy. A bit weird the first time I worked with him because apparently he always "side-lined" me every time. Other than me, there were two other guys working with us. Most of the time, he kinda just talked to the other two. Of course he was a real sweet and funny guy. When he let us off for the night, he actually made sure that the other two guys sent me home because of the late hour. Well, actually, despite that they gave the word to send me home, I actually ended up going home alone at 11pm. Real "gentlemen" they were!
Another thing about this guy I'm talking about is that he's really caring and sweet. As the other two guys didn't come for the following two working sessions, I guess this friend had no choice but talked to me more. Surprisingly, he remembered everything about me when I didn't think that he would. Even the smallest details I mean. For example, I didn't think that he actually noticed when I nodded when he asked about anyone wanting to become a paediatrician even though he kinda ignored me during the first session. And he even remembered my glove size that he always took for me whenever I needed them. When he wanted to teach me something, he asked me to sit while he squatted next to me and taught me everything he knows. When I cut myself, he stopped everything and immediately tend to my cut. And after the first cut, he was always mindful when he gave me something to do that might hurt myself and made all the necessary preparations.
I had a really great time with him during the four days I worked with him. He would force me do things when I kinda pleaded not to do, and laughed after that. I enjoyed talking to him about random things. Actually other than him, I really enjoyed the time I worked with the other people I met during the four days including the two other "not gentlemen".
This friend of mine had a bit of disagreement about religion stuffs. We talked about this for very long. He's an atheist you see. And he gave quite a good speech actually when we talked.
One thing I like him so much is because he's very very considerate. He noticed even the slightest discomfort in me and tried to do everything to ease me.
I must say, I really miss him a lot because I didn't see him after those days working with him and won't see him ever again. He's a very nice guy that I really pray that God will someday touch his heart and save him.
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Personal Testimony 3
A person I personally feel guilty towards.
Known for almost 2 years.
Was very close at the beginning but somehow things took a turn and now I'm considered as an "enermy". Lol!! Probably not as bad, but if the world is divided into two - friends and enermy, I've been long kicked to the other side of "friends" part.
A very nice friend. Helpful. Taught me lots of things and helped me through my studies.
At the beginning, I had a lot of things to talk to him, but things changed because was busy with studies and didn't have quite a lot of personal things that crept into my mind so basically, I really don't have anything to talk to him about anymore. About studies, I seeked advise from my own mentors who were assigned to me. Basically, I was very much more comfortable with my mentors because hahahaha, one thing, they sometimes "manja" and "sayang" me. At least that's how I thought of them. Anyway, this friend of mine I was talking about, of course I couldn't do these things to him right? He's a guy afterall.
Things worsen when he thinks that I was being "bitchy" and like kinda ignored him. Personally, I don't have anything against him but somehow he just thinks like that. So yeah. That's how I ended from being in the "friends" side to the "enermies" side.
Of course, from time to time, we talked and exchanged greetings. But yeah, definitely, on the other side. Lol!!
Sometimes, I really feel guilty for not talking to him but then like I said I don't have anything to talk anymore. Then why did I have a lot to talk about before? One thing, i used to have a lot to talk to him about was because his ex-gf was my ex-roommate and I had this stupid "love/like" relationship problem which he knows about. Practically, I really trust him. However, he broke up with my friend and I got over my problem, so yeah, I basically don't have anything to talk anymore. The only thing I talk about now is cute guys and korean celebrities which of course he's not interested in. So, should I be blamed for my silence?
Conclusion: A friend that I do treasure but somehow thought otherwise. Wish him happiness and find (according to his criteria) a true friendship.
Known for almost 2 years.
Was very close at the beginning but somehow things took a turn and now I'm considered as an "enermy". Lol!! Probably not as bad, but if the world is divided into two - friends and enermy, I've been long kicked to the other side of "friends" part.
A very nice friend. Helpful. Taught me lots of things and helped me through my studies.
At the beginning, I had a lot of things to talk to him, but things changed because was busy with studies and didn't have quite a lot of personal things that crept into my mind so basically, I really don't have anything to talk to him about anymore. About studies, I seeked advise from my own mentors who were assigned to me. Basically, I was very much more comfortable with my mentors because hahahaha, one thing, they sometimes "manja" and "sayang" me. At least that's how I thought of them. Anyway, this friend of mine I was talking about, of course I couldn't do these things to him right? He's a guy afterall.
Things worsen when he thinks that I was being "bitchy" and like kinda ignored him. Personally, I don't have anything against him but somehow he just thinks like that. So yeah. That's how I ended from being in the "friends" side to the "enermies" side.
Of course, from time to time, we talked and exchanged greetings. But yeah, definitely, on the other side. Lol!!
Sometimes, I really feel guilty for not talking to him but then like I said I don't have anything to talk anymore. Then why did I have a lot to talk about before? One thing, i used to have a lot to talk to him about was because his ex-gf was my ex-roommate and I had this stupid "love/like" relationship problem which he knows about. Practically, I really trust him. However, he broke up with my friend and I got over my problem, so yeah, I basically don't have anything to talk anymore. The only thing I talk about now is cute guys and korean celebrities which of course he's not interested in. So, should I be blamed for my silence?
Conclusion: A friend that I do treasure but somehow thought otherwise. Wish him happiness and find (according to his criteria) a true friendship.
Personal testimony 2
Known for more than a year.
Wasn't very sure about her the first time I met her. Hahaha..We met in the gym where we had PE. Didn't know who she was then. Didn't know the name as well. Guessed that she must be one of my mentors of whom I heard of from my friends that went for the meeting. Somehow, didn't meet her before school started so was a bit awkward the first meeting. Exchanged greetings and that's it.
After that, got closer because got to know her better. Super nice senior. Very supportive. Hihi...Figured me out quite fast enough to know that my heart usually flies off when I'm studying.
Happy for me when I finally started passing my anatomy tests.
Definitely a good friend God sent to me. Gave me a lot of advise. Guided me and still guiding me through my studies. Thankful that God sent me such a wonderful friend. Never did as well as her as a senior to my juniors. Sigh...
Super random person. Funny without realising herself.
super crazy about Korean celebrities. Very radical about the celebrity she likes. Hihihi..
A loyal and faithful Christian. Thank God we share the same faith.
Definitely wish that she'll be very successful and stay happy and faithful always.
Conclusion: One of the angels God sent to me to guide me through my studies just like Shu Yet in KTT.
Wasn't very sure about her the first time I met her. Hahaha..We met in the gym where we had PE. Didn't know who she was then. Didn't know the name as well. Guessed that she must be one of my mentors of whom I heard of from my friends that went for the meeting. Somehow, didn't meet her before school started so was a bit awkward the first meeting. Exchanged greetings and that's it.
After that, got closer because got to know her better. Super nice senior. Very supportive. Hihi...Figured me out quite fast enough to know that my heart usually flies off when I'm studying.
Happy for me when I finally started passing my anatomy tests.
Definitely a good friend God sent to me. Gave me a lot of advise. Guided me and still guiding me through my studies. Thankful that God sent me such a wonderful friend. Never did as well as her as a senior to my juniors. Sigh...
Super random person. Funny without realising herself.
super crazy about Korean celebrities. Very radical about the celebrity she likes. Hihihi..
A loyal and faithful Christian. Thank God we share the same faith.
Definitely wish that she'll be very successful and stay happy and faithful always.
Conclusion: One of the angels God sent to me to guide me through my studies just like Shu Yet in KTT.
Personal testimony 1 (just random, too bored)
Known for almost 3 years already.
Very close for a time then after, didn't talk much and happened a big quarrel.
Cold war for almost one semester. Finally forgive when helped me through an incident. Hihi...
Overall, a nice person. Helpful and yeah, even though I don't want to admit it, a good friend.
Taught me how to be sarcastic. Personally trained me every single day.
Likes to torture me mentally and verbally every day. Something is wrong if doesn't.
Always thinks that he's right but when he's in the wrong, tries to make up to you. (Hahahaha...that's how I torture him during the cold war..Muahahahaha)
Good cook and takes good care of house. Hihi..
Super long winded.
Super bossy. Very similar to a controlling ahjumma. Likes to scold me.
Likes to correct me and drill moral values into me. So super like a mother.
Wish him happiness and achieve his dreams.
Conclusion: "Hate to be stuck here with him" Lol!!
Very close for a time then after, didn't talk much and happened a big quarrel.
Cold war for almost one semester. Finally forgive when helped me through an incident. Hihi...
Overall, a nice person. Helpful and yeah, even though I don't want to admit it, a good friend.
Taught me how to be sarcastic. Personally trained me every single day.
Likes to torture me mentally and verbally every day. Something is wrong if doesn't.
Always thinks that he's right but when he's in the wrong, tries to make up to you. (Hahahaha...that's how I torture him during the cold war..Muahahahaha)
Good cook and takes good care of house. Hihi..
Super long winded.
Super bossy. Very similar to a controlling ahjumma. Likes to scold me.
Likes to correct me and drill moral values into me. So super like a mother.
Wish him happiness and achieve his dreams.
Conclusion: "Hate to be stuck here with him" Lol!!
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